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- Title
The Impact of Legal Inequality on Relational Power in Planned Lesbian Families.
- Authors
Butterfield, Jonniann; Padavic, Irene
- Abstract
Lesbian families have the potential to create families unmarked by the inequalities of power often found in cross-sex relationships. Yet, based on interviews with 27 women with children in such relationships, we find that living in a state that legally restricts the rights of nonbirth parents to child contact if the couple relationship dissolves severely undermines this possibility. Nonbirth parents engaged in three fear-induced strategies that were at odds with these couples’ desire for equitable partnership: acquiescing to the birth mother’s wishes; making themselves financially, emotionally, and legally indispensable; and using communities to police partners’ behavior and ensure accountability. As a result, the potential for such families to model egalitarian family forms that would help destabilize established gender patterns is diminished. We conclude by pointing to the importance of galvanizing to remove the remaining laws prohibiting second-parent adoption and by discussing strategies for social change.
- Subjects
LESBIAN families; FAMILY power; LESBIAN mothers; SECOND parent adoption; LEGAL status of lesbian couples; DIVISION of household labor; SOCIAL psychology research
- Publication
Gender & Society, 2014, Vol 28, Issue 5, p752
- ISSN
0891-2432
- Publication type
Article
- DOI
10.1177/0891243214540794